Comments on: Same-Sex Relationships are Unstable: Fact or Fiction?

By: Dennis

Dennis — Thu, 26 Oct 2006 12:39:14 +0000

Not twinky. Zwinky. It adds more curlz to the twink. :p Miss you.

By: Gio IV

Gio IV — Thu, 14 Sep 2006 23:33:14 +0000

DENNIS - Why is there an ad of a “Create Your Own Free Zwinky” after your post? Did you deliberately do that? Or is it an online conspiracy to cast a twinky cloud over your otherwise masculine profile? Hehehe.

By: Dennis

Dennis — Tue, 12 Sep 2006 14:14:53 +0000

Nope. Not saying same-sex relationships are inherently unstable. I do, however, agree on Kia’s perspective about how societal framework
selfishly robs gay couples off a substrate to which the relationship can anchor itself while learning how to deal with bees buzzing around eager to pick someone else’s honey. And Gio, yeah, men regardless of orientation are driven by the bunch of limited mindless Y-linked genes all focused on how to get it on and fast. So you see, it is REALLY difficult to make a gay relationship last long in this world. Though I can deeply empathize with Dude-A, maybe I can change the mind of Dude-B. What do u say? :p Okay, off to bed now. Damn, ‘can’t even hold up to two mugs of beer now. Gaa I’m old.

By: Dennis

Dennis — Tue, 12 Sep 2006 14:13:35 +0000

By: Kia

Kia — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 03:39:27 +0000

This faulty premise leads me back to my (faultless) theory that heterosexual relationships are made easier by the traditional roles of society which dictate that, even when the love, passion and sex are gone, women keep the house and take care of the children while the men work for a living. While gay couples do not have pre-defined roles, and aren’t even recognized by law (and hence are not bound by it), it’s so easy to say that gay relationships are “unstable” — when in fact they are just SINCERE and TRUTHFUL. We do not hide behind the guise of male-female roles, the excuse of children (oh please, fuck your kids up with your horrible marriage, why don’t you?), or the fable that is male fidelity. If a heterosexual person calls that unstable, I would likely not believe him/her, because the last thing he or she would be is honest. Relationships last because of commitment, regardless of age, sex or species. Amen.